{"id":704,"date":"2015-07-30T13:06:04","date_gmt":"2015-07-30T17:06:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.sherryquanlee.com\/?p=704"},"modified":"2015-07-30T13:26:28","modified_gmt":"2015-07-30T17:26:28","slug":"give-grandma-a-kiss","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.sherryquanlee.com\/?p=704","title":{"rendered":"GIVE GRANDMA A KISS"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Note:  maybe it&#8217;s the heat (blessing of summer), but I just noticed my last post (be patient, I procrastinate, I don&#8217;t post often) was about this same poem!  This one, again, a slightly different version.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s been an amazing summer! Beginning with participating in a class taught by Alison McGhee at Metro State!  The class motivated me to get back to poetry.  One of the poems I wrote about my grandson Ethan is an honorable mention in the Goodreads monthly poetry contest (this is the first time I&#8217;ve submitted anything-wow, what an honor).  I haven&#8217;t written anything since the class, but as writers we shouldn&#8217;t be hard on ourselves, the writing will happen when we\/or it is ready-but, sometimes we need to be among other writers to help make that happen. <\/p>\n<p>Give Grandma a Kiss<br \/>\n\t\tfor Ethan, my nonverbal, autistic grandson<\/p>\n<p>I always wear mauve lipstick, give<br \/>\nGrandma a kiss\u2014<\/p>\n<p>He leans in, all seven years of him, knowing<br \/>\nmore than I know after<br \/>\n67 years of thousands of kisses. <\/p>\n<p>He leans in, without hesitation.  I<br \/>\nmark his brown forehead with a temporary<br \/>\ntattoo. My kiss his kiss. Like no kiss<br \/>\na man has given me.  Words <\/p>\n<p>not necessary language.  His way<br \/>\nof love, spontaneous, silent<\/p>\n<p>a heart organic, knowing what it is<br \/>\nto hold breath a millisecond; a mime<br \/>\nnot needing to be understood.  <\/p>\n<p>But Grandma wants to see underneath<br \/>\nthe innocence, to reach what she lost<br \/>\nor never experienced.<\/p>\n<p>Later, my daughter-in-law, the nurse,<br \/>\nquestions what she thinks is a scratch;<br \/>\nhow has he hurt himself this time?<\/p>\n<p>The hurt is mine; the gift unwrapped,<br \/>\nvisible, transparent.<\/p>\n<p>https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/topic\/show\/17029183-please-vote-for-the-august-2015-goodreads-newsletter-finalists<em><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Note: maybe it&#8217;s the heat (blessing of summer), but I just noticed my last post (be patient, I procrastinate, I don&#8217;t post often) was about this same poem! This one, again, a slightly different version. It&#8217;s been an amazing summer! Beginning with participating in a class taught by Alison McGhee &#8230;<\/p>\n<p> <a class=\"continue-reading-link\" href=\"https:\/\/blog.sherryquanlee.com\/?p=704\"><span>Continue reading<\/span><i class=\"crycon-right-dir\"><\/i><\/a> <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[80,7],"tags":[51,57,19,29],"class_list":["post-704","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-poetry","category-the-art-of-writing","tag-autism","tag-minnesota-author","tag-poetry","tag-process-of-writing"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.sherryquanlee.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/704","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.sherryquanlee.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.sherryquanlee.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.sherryquanlee.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.sherryquanlee.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=704"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/blog.sherryquanlee.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/704\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":708,"href":"https:\/\/blog.sherryquanlee.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/704\/revisions\/708"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.sherryquanlee.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=704"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.sherryquanlee.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=704"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.sherryquanlee.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=704"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}